Habit one : intellectual humility and reframing
Habit two : seek real learning
Habit three : assume the best about people
Habit four : don't feed people's worst fears
Habit five : hunt for the best argument against you
Habitsix : be open to change
Habit seven : spend time with people
Habit eight : a sliver of humor
Habit nine : seek inner peace
Habit ten : embrace the discomfort of non-closure.